Dating Hacks

New York Escort

For single folks in today’s day and age it can be tough.  Nowadays everyone is on social media like facebook Any time away from their circle and you will find them searching through their phone the hell are we to find and meet someone we want to spend time with?

1. Date an escort.
In any city around the world you’ll find plenty of escort services for dating and companionship. With 1 call you could dial a date and order someone to your place like you would ordering a pizza. I searched for escorts and found a few of them online.

Heres what I found …
5 Star Escort Service in New York. The profiles on their site show some really pretty females.
NY Xtasy Escorts another escort profile site.
New Jersey Escorts Now seems to be New Jersey Folks
Queens Escorts Now For folks in Queens
Westchester Escorts Now for folks north of NYC in Westchester County NY

“Describe your ideal match and we will have 1 for you at your door within minutes” is what many advertise on their websites. While this will set you back a few bucks, nothing worth anything in life is ever free.

2. Start a local group via social media.

One of our favorite ways to meet people comes from starting a group on We started a group called city champagne parties and city wine tasting (city with held for privacy) and the responses are amazing. Each day we get more and more eligible singles joining the group. Now as group leader who do you think gets most of the action? Thats right ME. Each month I organize a wine tasting event at a local bar and tons of women show up. I show them how to taste wine and hold the glass and boom – I’m the man. I haven’t taken it to twitter because I don’t use it, but in FB I can easily promote it and take it to the next level.

3. Learn group selling.

Not exactly as it sounds this involves making your way into a social group and merging your way to the single people within it. This can be a short term or long term project. Let say you are out and about and you see a large group. Most of these are impenetrable unless you know what to look for. Most of the time there will be 1 or 2 people of a large group that are looking for outside stimulation. Typically that is the person or persons that look bored or are constantly scanning the room. The best way to penetrate that group would be via the odd man out. A good opener for groups is something simple in passing such as “hows the drink?” or whatever they are eating or doing at the time. This works great because you will always get a positive response which sets the tone for the next part of the opener “what is it?” which will get more talking going.… Read the rest of this entry

27 May 2024

Ice Bucket Challenge


The ice bucket challenge is all the rage these days with more and more people taking part in it each and everyday.  It works like this, a person dumps a bucket of ice water over their head, records it on video, uploads it to facebook and nominates 3 other people to participate in the challenge within 24 hours or donate $100 to the ALS charity. This is the kind of thing that you either love or hate. Most people got involved and did everything to the letter while others sat back and said why all the theatrics just donate the money. The guys over at the vape shop in Brooklyn did this and it got us thinking so did a small fundraiser hosted by lawn & garden and the turnout was huge. Most folks prefer to donate without all the theatrics.

Well the truth is the theatrics is what brings awareness to the disease and the idea that you should donate to the cause. It is estimated that only 1 in 10 will actually donate the money whether or not they participate in the challenge or not. Yet those numbers are nothing to snub our noses too. It is reported that the ALS has received almost 8 million dollars this year in donations since the challenge began, It was only 1.7 million for the same time last year. Love it or hate it you can’t argue the fact that it is working.

True it might seem like a cry for attention when your buddies are seen on video in this stunt but all good PR begins with a good stunt. Who remembers when the gap put real tshirts in their billboard ads? A real pair of jeans was attached to their billboards which were found everywhere. Sure many of those were eventually vandalized and stolen but in the interim the gap got millions and millions of dollars in free publicity and advertising because of that stunt. Sales were up 20% that year as a result.

The thing about the internet is this — its very easy for things to become viral and spread rapidly especially when facebook is involved. It’s the perfect campaign; refer 3 friends, post it on facebook, call it a challenge, do something bold. All those elements make for the perfect viral marketing. After all who doesn’t want to post cool videos of you doing something brave and for a good cause and then nominate other friends on a public website. But most of all which made it gain traction was when celebrities started doing it. The 1st recorded celebrity was Matt Lauer on National TV he did the challenge and so it took off.… Read the rest of this entry

20 Aug 2014

How To Create An UnHackable Password

Many people have been taught the basics of how not to create a password such as using; password, 1234, name, user etc etc. But while the basics is a good starting point you actually have to go a step further to create one that is unbreakable. By unbreakable we mean that a computer program would need to take millions of years to de code. The way computers decode passwords is by using every character in every combination possible until it reaches one that works. This method is know as a brute force attempt.

Some programs or hosts have a built in password generator which will compose a password consisting of 8-12 digits or random upper case, lower case, numbers and characters. While this might be great its important to understand what makes a brute force attack unbreakable – password length. That’s right, all the cryptic symbols, characters, numbers and other random element will still be cycled through the program in a brute force attack. So while using all numbers might seem difficult to you a human, it is merely another character to cycle through and with a small length password that becomes quite easy.

These days many programs or hosts (host meaning a website that requires you to log in) require a password to be a minimum of 6 character, with 1 upper case, 1 lower case and 1 number. We can use that info to create the perfect password that is both easy to remember, and fit the criteria.

Now as I mentioned its the length of character that make a password hard to beat in a brute force attack. So the key is to make it very long. But how?

A simple way to do this is by thinking of 4 random words that rhyme with 4 numbers. The numbers can be ones that mean something or have a sequence.


1- run

2- shoe

3- tree


Now, lets make the first letter of each word a capital and we have this


you can do that with 2,4,6,8 or a birthday 1,2,9,2 and so on and so on

By using this method with a password length as shown it would take a computer doing a brute force attack over a billion years to crack. I think that would qualify as very safe. Try it for your next password.… Read the rest of this entry

27 Jul 2014

Appreciation – The Confidence Booster

Each and every day we are fed a million and one ways that everything sucks and that life is a horrible no win existence. While that might seem extreme or maybe untrue, you might not have noticed that everyone and everything around us hammer in the idea that things just suck. The newspaper has us thinking that everyone is a bad, racist, terrorist and that the rich get richer and we are getting poorer. Unemployment, strikes, market downturns got us all thinking that we are going broke and are doomed. By default negative images and ideas are being reinforced upon us subconsciously – we don’t know it’s there and can’t do anything to stop it. Until now.

The first step in building confidence in a confidence wrecking society is to acknowledge that we are responsible for our own confidence and that without taking control of our own confidence it will be controlled by outside factors beyond our control. The end result of that is that we will have no confidence.

The root of all confidence is appreciation. Once we appreciate what we have we allow the universe to bring more into our lives. When we are in a state of insecurity and fear we push away the good things from happening to us such as good health, wealth and relationships. How much easier is it to feel better when you take a moment to thank the universe for what it is you have right now? It’s almost like an instant booster. Try that one for a moment.

Take a few minutes 2 time per day. Before you begin your day and also right before you retire for the night are the best times to do this. Extra credit is given if you can squeeze a session or two mid day – but that’s optional. Note that if you are around particularly negative people that are always complaining, then 4 times per day might be the minimum and you might even have to add more. Remember, by default we are being fed negative energy and our goal with these exercises is to eliminate them by reinforcing the opposite so that we lead a path towards positivity.

The exercise is as follows…

– Set aside a few minutes of uninterrupted quiet time

-Take a deep breath and stretch your arms, legs and chest/back

-Think about several things you appreciate about yourself.
Now this could be anything at all, such as; I appreciate that I am able to lookout the window or I appreciate that I know how to use the internet anything that
is absolutely true and reasonable.

-Repeat the things that you appreciate in the format..
“I appreciate I am able to use the internet, I am glad I have the ability
and that more abilities come to me every day”

By appreciating what is true and affirming that you have more everyday, you allow for the universe to give it to you naturally. When you do this over the course of 21 days, you will notice things start to change.… Read the rest of this entry

11 Jul 2013
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